Sunday, April 25, 2010

Facing The Pain



Facing the Pain.

The nebulous thing that we don't really want to get to, that lives under the many, painful in themselves, self-defense mechanisms, that imped our daily lives.

This weekend for me has largely been about facing the pain. It has been about a deepening consciousness of what revisiting the pain to strengthen the defenses that keep us stuck feels like in comparison to the alternative.

The alternative: Facing the pain because it frees us from the dictates and tryanies of our own protection mechanisms.

I know the feeling of going into the pain for the right reasons. It is wonderful. Freeing. Frightening. Not nearly as terrifying as we think it will be.

Today I am a little freer a little kinder to myself and a hundred times more strong and able. I trust myself to walk with myself.

I would like to express an ocean of thanks to Dora and my Saturday morning work group for their dedication to having the best possible lives for themselves and for the courage to go 'there' for the right reasons. My sense of family, in and with humanity, has certainly reached a new level.

The Institute of Self-Esteem for Africa (I-SEA) is certainly pleased with this weekends journey as it has give birth to a new workshop for our personal growth, one day workshop series .

Please welcome to Our Calendar of Events, the Seventh One Day Workshop in our series,


Workshop 7: New Decisions

Releasing Judgment
Working with Self-Defenses
Owning my choices
Making Body decisions
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This workshop will be available in Cape Town, Johannesburg and Port Elizabeth and Surrounds as soon as we can find some space for it in our busy events calendar.





If this workshop sounds like it could add something to your life please contact us by email (All Areas) on info@selfesteemfa.co.za.





You may also mail me directly: amy@selfesteem.co.za.





or Call Cape Town: 083 318 9929


Johannesburg: 073 971 1673


Eastern Cape: 074 963 2491

Many Thanks

I wish you the courage to find true relief.

Amy Morgan

Keys to Self-Esteem 1 Day Life Enhancing Workshop Cape Town



We all deserve to feel this good about ourselves.

Attend Keys to Self-Esteem One day Workshop in Noordhoek Cape Town on Friday the 30th April.

In this workshop we will look at:

  • The negative self talk that keeps us stuck.
  • How we develop our sense of self and how we can begin to change that in lasting and rewarding ways
  • Our areas of natural confidence and how to grow and spread a sense of ease into areas of our lives that are currently painful or stressful.
  • We will make a commitment to non-judgment and begin to experience life from a place of growing self-acceptance.
  • We will gain an understanding of how and why our healthy defense mechanisms get stuck and cause us problems later in life.

Contact us on:

info@self-esteemfa.co.za

or call us: Cape Town on :083 318 9929

Eastern Cape (Port Elizabeth, Plet, St Fransis) on 074 963 2491

Johannesburg / Pretoria on 073 971 1673

Visit our Website: www.selfseteemfa.co.za

Enjoy the wonderful weather today in Cape Town

Amy Morgan

Institute of Self-Esteem for Africa

(I - SEA)

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Self-Esteem Workshop Series

It is important to understand ourselves without the distortions of low self-esteem.
Live without distorted views of yourself and your world.
Self-Esteem for Africa offers 6 one day self Esteem workshops. They can be attended as a series or any one of them may be attended on its own.
A single workshop will cost R 600 for the day.
3 One day workshops will cost R 1600
The series of 6 Full day workshops will cost
R 2850.
The workshops are available in Cape Town, JHB and Port Elizabeth.

Workshop Topics
Day 1: Keys to Self-Esteem

What is self esteem?

The problem of Low self-Esteem

The Pathological Critic

Compassion

Establishing Worth
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Day 2: Criticism & Values

Responding to Criticism

The Shoulds

Defining my Values
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Day 3: Handling Mistakes

Handling Mistakes

Awareness

Asking for what I want
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Day 4: What I Need

Accurate Self-assessment

Goal Setting

Recognising Achievement
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Day 5: Facing the Pain

I am still not ok

Facing the pain

The Five Relationships
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Day 6: Anchoring Joy

Visualisation

Anchoring the good times

Writing the Rules
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